3 WAYS TO GET THE RING

Girls put too much effort to prove themselves to their men that you are the ‘only one’. In other terms you give him, everything he need and want but he never returns the favor with your only want - marriage and there is no sign of it. Have you ever wondered why? Why he has not mentioned the marriage issue? Men clearly know what women want, long-lasting commitment; they also invest in their future with the woman they chose. Ladies if your man hasn’t talked about it yet it’s because i)he doesn’t see a future with you (ii) he is still attached to some woman or iii) you haven’t given him a reason to marry you.

Set Requirements

Unlike the 80s where girls would sit around waiting for men to beg for their hand in marriage, these days women are everywhere where men are. Do not use the 80s logic into the modern time situations. He is going to play with you until you set requirements. Men do everything with a purpose, if a man dates a woman for an extended length of time and still refuse to marry you. He probably wants you and does not want anybody to have you. The only reason why, is his woman has not required him to do so. Simply set a date for him to make a decision an ultimatum that its either he has plans for you or you will leave him. It is reasonable to ask otherwise how long you are going to stay in a relationship. 2years? 5years? If you have not required him to marry you, hence he will not see the need to.

Standards

Ladies, Stop giving up your power! Do not like a hired car where anyone can just drive you, land on and price tag you to spend time with without any obligations or worries. Make your man view and land on that high value property. Realize that you are prime real estate that’s for purchase only not for renting. Make it clear to him that you are worth and come at a cost. Break it down…” I love, respect, listen to you I’m faithful, kind and would love to have your children I need your support, loyalty, attention, affection and above all your love and expect to be married to you and set wedding date” .You would’ve set standards for yourself, if it’s too much for him hence he was just looking too rent you and leave you later. The guy who listens to this will take responsibilities and starts to make plans to marry you like you need him to.

Implement the above

It’s not asking a man to marry you (to bend down with one knee) No, It’s about setting a timeline for the marriage and tell the man you want to marry its letting him know what you want and expect. It might be hard, but what really hurts and more harder is getting pregnant or wasting your time dating a man who does not intend to marry you. Get the clarity you need, where’s the relationship going, what plans do you/we have? Does he love you enough? Responsible men won’t back down after all

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